It’s odd the things you learn in childhood that stick with
you through a lifetime – strange things.
Do you know that I still bend down to pick up a penny that I see lying
on the sidewalk or in a parking lot?
“See a penny and pick it up and all day long you'll have good
luck.” My mother taught me that rhyme as
a small child.
These days, of course, a penny is basically worthless. I no longer need the penny, never did really;
and, quite frankly, picking up a penny requires more effort as the years go
by. In fact, I almost feel a little
embarrassed when I do it; but I do it nonetheless. Why?
As I grew older, I interpreted the rhyme to mean that, if
you’re so prideful that you would not bend over and pick up a penny, you don’t
deserve good luck or good fortune. And,
moreover, it takes so little effort... well, why not?
Here’s where I segue into a recent experience I had. It was nothing I suppose. But, it’s funny how it impressed me.
I was in McDonalds.
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t eat there much (hardly ever), but I do occasionally
stop for coffee. Oh, I can afford to go
to Starbucks and I do once in a while.
The demographics are different in Starbucks. That’s for sure. Many of the customers are fixated on their
laptop computers and cell phones.
Generally, Starbucks customers are slimmer, tidier, more mannerly, and
presumably better educated.
But… Have you ever heard the saying (It’s a country song by
Lester Flatt): ‘Don’t get above your raisin’? Meaning you better remember where you came
from. I try to do that – remember that
is.
So, to continue, I walked into McDonalds. There was a line of three boys, probably
sixteen or seventeen, waiting to place their order. I formed-up behind them. The boy in front turned to me and said, “You
go ahead sir.” I went to the front and ordered
my senior coffee. I turned to him and
said ‘thank you.’ I wanted to say that
you must have great parents, but I didn’t.
He probably wouldn’t have understood why I said that anyway.
In telling this story to someone later, they asked me if I
would have done that when I was sixteen or seventeen.
I said, ‘yes, I think I would have.
I hope I would have.’
I know this isn’t a big deal. It just one of those little transitory life situations
that gave me a bit of hope for the future.
True Nelson